tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4605523553610862388.post5761551535380234332..comments2021-08-18T22:56:09.133-05:00Comments on The Stay-At-Home Attorney: Here We Go AgainSAH Attorneyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01024134678577744225noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4605523553610862388.post-88132205616488986052012-11-21T19:29:20.544-06:002012-11-21T19:29:20.544-06:00::creepy Internet stranger hugs:: I hope things tu...::creepy Internet stranger hugs:: I hope things turn around soon.Nicole @ The Kavanaugh Reporthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07590792583302304797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4605523553610862388.post-49793289041555889782012-11-21T18:50:34.490-06:002012-11-21T18:50:34.490-06:00Thanks, Jen. He hasn't yet but has an appoint...Thanks, Jen. He hasn't yet but has an appointment scheduled with a therapist next week. (He's been trying to set something up for awhile, but had to go through the University since he is on student health insurance and it has been a long referral process.). I agree with you 100%, he has got to find a healthy way to deal with his anger and frustration besides taking it out on me. SAH Attorneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01024134678577744225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4605523553610862388.post-19850499834374450142012-11-21T15:31:27.727-06:002012-11-21T15:31:27.727-06:00:( Has he talked to anyone about this? He may need...:( Has he talked to anyone about this? He may need someone other than you gently helping him realize that the pressure on his end is not helping, and also that it takes time. Just because you had one good go (which is great!!) doesn't mean everytime he htinks of it it happens, or everytime your try it works. It's a give and take. I'm sorry you're dealing with this!Jen @ the mama yearshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11764870232053492145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4605523553610862388.post-41138840036919564512012-11-21T09:32:21.855-06:002012-11-21T09:32:21.855-06:00OK, I just have to say, you and I are in the same ...OK, I just have to say, you and I are in the same boat. Not with the vaginismus, but with the husband's always wanting/hinting/pouting about sex. Don't get me wrong, I like sex as much as the next person, but I don't need to do it all day, every day. I mean, I work 40 hours a week, co-chair 2 charity events, run the house and raise a one year old. By the time I actually get to kick my feet up at 8:30 at night, the last thing on my mind is sex. LOL And you're right, the more they push and push and push, we end of giving in just to shut them up and then it is a vicious cycle. When I give in, I want it less and so forth. Can't they just snuggle and not be attempting the boob feel at the same time? :-)<br />I hate feeling that pressure to have to have sex all the time so don't worry, you aren't alone! CourtneyAnnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01810498998886554803noreply@blogger.com